Life
for Regan King, age 16, took a drastic turn when she got a new younger sister
one day. Regan’s older sister, Amber, decided that she wasn’t ready to take
care of the child she already had and gave her up to her parents to take care
of. Regan and her sisters Paige and Gabby had no idea how to deal with this
life changing moment. “I think my sister needs to get her life together”, said
King.
Regan,
living in Roanoke, VA at the time, had never been through an experience like
this and was only beginning to understand how serious the situation was. Regan
was working on getting a job and dealing with studies for school when this
situation took place so it wasn’t only straining on her parents, but also very
stressful for her in many ways. Lily, the new “sister” would have so many
questions she would want answered, and Regan would have to share a room. There
really wasn’t any chance of getting away from this situation for Regan. It was
a difficult situation for everyone. “It makes me angry because Lily feels like
she has been abandoned”, King added. Regan would also later add that her sister
Amber had had a troublesome relationship with drugs and alcohol, along with
guys who wouldn’t be the best role models for her. Her Parents had it rough
too, not only getting a new “daughter” to take care of, but having to deal with
Amber’s actions.
The
actions of Amber caused widespread family tension and emotions to grow out of
control with her family. Regan knew that Amber wanted to come back and
rightfully be Lily’s mom, but Regan wasn’t too sure that she had earned the
right or trust of the family to do so. “They wish that she would make
improvements, so she can come back and be a part of the family”, King said
about Amber. Regan feels like that if Amber could get her life in order and
calmed down that she could come back and be okay.
By Caleb Smith
Crazy how all of this happened but awesome how close your family has grown together during all of this -CA
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